If you’ve engaged in some naughty texting, you’re not alone. Earlier this month, a sex toy company surveyed more than 1,000 adults and found that 32 percent of men and 38 percent of women sext. That’s a lot of X-rated content flying around the digital world!
Whether you want to experiment more with sexting or you’re a seasoned vet who wants to step up their game, here are some tips and tricks for giving—and getting—seriously hot sext.
1. Start Out Slow
Building sexual tension can make the interaction and anticipation even hotter, don’t peak too early.
2. Be a Little Bit of a Tease
You want them to have something to look forward to, so try to create some ambiguity and mystery. They should have to use their imagination to fill in some blanks, it’s so much more fun.
3. Then, Fire Up Your Sext Buddy’s Lust
Once you’ve got them worked up, now’s the time to get naughty. What do you want to do to each other when you meet? What turns you on? How will it feel?
4. Jog Their Memory
If you have met before, tell them what got you totally turned on the last time you were together. Maybe it was the way she sensuously grazed her fingernails down your back or the way he swirled his tongue!
5. Leave Them Hanging—Just a Little
Messages that beg to be responded to will keep the sexting going.
6. Give Plenty of Feedback
Like what your partner is saying? Something stop you in your tracks? Tell them! Your partner on the other end can’t see you and wants to know you’re into what they’re saying. Positive reinforcement can be just the encouragement your sexting partner needs to keep it coming. (Pun intended!)
7. Do a Sext Strip Tease
Throughout the day, text your partner what you want to do to him/her—or, what you want them to do to you later that night. At times, include a suggestive photo. The anticipation of getting it on can be as exciting as doing the deed.
8. Remember, a Picture’s Worth a Thousand Words
Though some might go for full-on crotch shots when it comes to sexting pics, never underestimate the seductive power of a suggestive photo. A shot of the underwear you’re planning on wearing for your date or of you wrapped in a towel after the shower can be enough to tempt and tease.
So there you have it. You can now tease like a pro. So, what are you waiting for? Work those digits and show off your ‘sext appeal’!