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After spending the last few years or so studying the psychology and behavior of both Men and Women, I’ve come to the opinion that MOST of our desires, drives, preferences, strengths, weaknesses, behaviors, and personality traits are determined by our own DNA and some by our social conditioning.
Even differences like whether a person prefers adventure in his or her life or couch riding all day are largely a matter of programming from birth.
HOWEVER they got to be interested in these common things, most women have a few main interests when it comes too needs, desires, when it comes to men and there relationships, and romance.
Have you ever read the personals colum in your local paper? Have you ever noticed how many women say things like “princess looking for prince”, “friends first”, and “still looking for my soulmate”? Have you ever noticed how men never say these things in a personal?
What’s going on then?
Have you ever been able to overhear a group of women talking about men? You will notice how they speak largely in some kind of coded language and constantly make a big deal out of tiny details that seem totally irrelevant to the male?
Have you ever noticed, on the other hand, how men are always direct with each other and have no interest in bickering over such small things and the fine details?
Have you also noticed how many women are attracted to the drama?
Here’s my take on the whole subject: Women are still playing out the role that hasn’t changed for thousands (or millions?) of years. These days the language and clothing are different. But it’s the same as it always has been.
There are many parts of the human brain that create drives and desires for different things. Often, these drives will conflict with each other.
For example, a woman might want a strong man to be in her life, but she might also like the feeling of independence. She might want to have all the attention, but she may also want to be seen as above needing it. (Men have these types of conflicts as well, but in very different areas.)
I also hear a lot of men saying, “I hate all the drama that women can create. Why do they create all the drama?”
